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Incredible Tips To Spice Up Your Love Life

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Nothing kills a relationship faster than boredom.

It’s not difficult to slip into routines when you’re with your man. Like studies, work or going to the gym or even eating, sex is essential to maintaining a positive relationship but it can become routine and boring. When that happens, you and your partner may be looking for other thrills.

Do not allow this to happen to your love life!

The Bad Girls Bible will teach you everything you need to know about how to keep things going In the meantime, these sex tips can give you a good way to avoid boredom in your relationship and sex lives. Let’s get it down:

1. Learn about New Sex Positions

This is the simplest to do, and also one of the most effective methods of keeping things interesting. This is why I came up with this Sex Positions section of the Bad Girls Bible. It is filled with pictures and explanations on over 100 different sex positions.

If you’re hoping to offer your partner back-arching in screams of orgasms that keep him sexually hooked to you, then you’ll find them in my private and discreet newsletter. Learn about the five dangerous & “dumb” sexual mistakes that make him turn off and how to avoid these.

If you’ve never had the pleasure of taking the lead before in bed you might feel a little nervous trying this. However, your partner will surely enjoy the experience. Don’t be afraid to trust me.

It is recommended to experiment with some of the easier to perform positions which don’t require much flexibility, and are easy to switch to.

2. Explore his fantasies (And Yours too!)

Everyone has sexual fantasies. Everyone!

The problem with a lot of people is that they think that their fantasies are either weird or a little out there. Some people are reluctant to tell their man about their fantasies due to fear or potential embarrassment or the man may think they’re odd.

Your man is likely to be thinking the exact same that you are!

There may be certain dreams or ideas make you smile however you don’t encounter them in the real world.

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3. Dominating, Exploring Your Sensitive Side

The majority of relationships have one person that is slightly more dominant, while the other is more submissive.

In the sense D/S of the term. However, in the sense that one partner is more willing to experiment with new ideas, change position or engage one another in sexual sex.

One way to spice things up is to switch up your character the next time you’re in bed with your man.

In other words, if he’s typically the one who wants to change position You should attempt to take him out and change positions instead. (make sure you test some new positions as well!)
Maybe he’s the type who usually initiates sexual relations. What if you tried being the person who is the aggressor this time?
You might also start with foreplay. Try holding out until he does.

4. Pinch His Ass

This is possibly the most bizarre sexually explicit tip you’ll ever get from me. It’s actually very effective.

The next time you are taking a final goodbye to your lover when you are leaning towards him to kiss him, swiftly grab his bum. You can hold it in your hand either smack or grab it with your fingers.

Be sure to make it quick, but don’t say anything about it.

Don’t be able to explain to him the reason you did what you did.

Just smile at him.

For your guy It can be a bit complicated, but it’s an indication that you’re in love with him. is a sign that you are naughty as well.

A word of caution: don’t use it each day or even during the week. Only use it about every month, to keep things fun and flirty.

5. Utilize Sex Toys

Sex toys are great. Particularly when you want to make things more exciting. There’s a sex toy for everything. For him, for her. For his penis, and for your penis, for your.

Foreplay with sex toys can be a great way to make one another hot and irritated prior to sex. They can also be great as an alternative to sex or during sexual activity as well.

But as I’ve said with all the suggestions that you will find here: If you only rely on sex toys, things will eventually become boring and routine.
An effective way to see sex toys is seeing them as a condiment, not the main course.

In the coming weeks, I will be adding sections on which sexual toys are the most effective and how you can make use of them.

6. Take a shower with Him!

This easy sex trick is like pinching his insecurities. It must be used sparingly if you want it to be effective.

The next time your man is taking a shower, follow him a minute later. From there, you have a choice of what to do:

You could do nothing else except wash him. It’s surprisingly sexually attractive!
You can offer him a blow-up. Try placing a towel over your knees when you do this, as your knees can get very painful.
You may have sex. You’ll also notice that the combination of water and shampoo can dry out the natural lubrication system.

7. Build anticipation

Another reason why it is dull and boring is because there’s no excitement in anticipation, there’s no tension before you have an affair with your man. It’s just a routine (for the majority of couples, it’s either every morning or evening).

To break free from this boring routine, try creating anticipation on something he’s anticipating. If you are on vacation with friends, text your guy and tell him the extent to which you’re missing him (and how cute you are).

Inform him of the things you’re planning to do with him when you return. In detail…

This doesn’t only apply to when you are in vacation. You can try it right after you have left to go to work or school.

Caveat: Like with the other sex-related tips, make sure to use this technique sparingly as it may become monotonous fairly quickly.

8. Dressing for Him

Dressing in a manly manner is a simple ‘sex’ tip. In a way it’s related to the previous sex-related tip, “Building Anticipation’.

When I talk about “Dressing up for Him”, I don’t neccessarily refer to dressing in costumes or wearing really slutty outfits.

If I say that I’m talking about wearing something that’s provocative. It should make him take notice. Something that makes him think of why he loves you so very much.

This could be a dress that is shorter than normal, a shirt that’s cut lower or something else that highlights your best features.

9. Watch Porn Together

Let me know! I totally understand if you dislike porn and wish to stay clear of this practice completely.

There’s a common belief that porn lovers are males and women dislike it. But this isn’t quite the truth.

I think that this is a more accurate method of describing the stereotype:

Many women are not fond of ‘conventional’ pornography.

What is conventional pornography? Pornography that’s offensive to women, in which men treat women like dirt, and leave a lot of humour on their faces in the end.

But, if you search for it, you will discover porn that is not like this at all.

If you’re not sold on the idea of watching porn with your guy Do not feel like you have to.

10. Ask For Directions

When you are really looking to satisfy your partner, no matter if you’re offering him a blowjob, a handjob, or having sex is a really sensible choice if you’re looking to grow quickly.

But don’t ask him directly.

Don’t say:
Is that ok?
I’m not quite sure what I’m doing However, I hope you like it.

The best way to ask for directions’ is to offer him a choice or to make a statement that suggests.

Are you a blowjob man or blowjob guy?

I’m betting you’re one of those guys who is a fan of playing balls in with…
You sound like the kind of person who is high and on top…
I’m sure you’re a fan of doggystyle sexual sex…

Some people find this to be really easy, while others find it a little complicated. However, once you’ve asked the directions’, you’ll discover what your man is interested in the most. In turn, he’ll be more likely to repay the favor!

11. Talk Dirty

Talking dirty to your man can be really powerful. That’s why you will find an entire section of The Bad Girls Bible devoted to the art of dirty talking in addition to the powerful dirty-talking tutorial video I wrote to get you on the right track, quickly. You can view it here.

Rather than rehashing everything already in the talk dirty section, take the time to look it up for yourself.

If you’re not aware about the advantages of talking dirty, plenty of women are fond of it since it can be used to keep your guy constantly towards you and thinking of your presence when you’re not around.